Friday, 8 March 2013

WOW really?

For Dylan's birthday he invited his one friend Chelsy so he got an invite to her birthday.  Last year he was the only kindy friend she was allowed to invite and she still ignored him quite a bit so I thought he wouldn't want to go as he has left kindy to go to school but he was so excited to go.  He wanted to get her a pretty hair tie so she can think about him when she wears it (his words).

We arrived today and he sat next to her and she said "Who are you?" so he said "Dylan" and then she said "Oh you used to go kindy with me" and played with him on the playground (party was at a beach).  Was surprised to see so many of the other kindy kids there but then her mum said something about inviting heaps so that Chelsy would have a lot of presents and friends there.

The kids played together quite well, like they used to for kindy and then she asked him why he had been invited (kind of got the idea that she didn't want him there).

Not sure why parents do that, invite just about anybody just to get gifts.  I always try and find out who my boys are playing with and friendly with and invite them.  No point in having heaps of kids there that the boys don't know or want to see.

Chelsy is starting primary school but lucky a different one to the one Dylan goes to so this is probably the last we will see of her.  He has made some good friends at school, one door closes and another opens.

1 comment:

  1. wow that is very sad parents do that, invite everyone for the presents...i do the same as you, find out who my kids play with and only invite them.

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